{"id":1224,"date":"2018-05-26T12:46:58","date_gmt":"2018-05-26T17:46:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.flcssc.org\/wordpress\/?p=1224"},"modified":"2018-05-26T13:01:02","modified_gmt":"2018-05-26T18:01:02","slug":"beware-of-the-gaslighters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.flcssc.org\/wordpress\/2018\/05\/26\/beware-of-the-gaslighters\/","title":{"rendered":"Beware of the Gaslighters"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I was pointed to a very good article about how some people will manipulate others.\u00a0 We would hope that this does not happen in the church setting, but in reality it does.\u00a0 It falls under one of the other articles that I have shared in the Welcome Center and through the Newsletters.\u00a0 The document was called, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flcssc.org\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/12-REASONS-WHY-IT-IS-GOOD.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">12 Reasons to be a Church Bully<\/a>, by Rev. 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